Does Abandon Have To Be A Negative Word?

Like fellow blogger, Family Fun & Faith, I have never cared for the word, abandon. In my mind, it always conjured up only negative visions.

However, just recently, I have come to the conclusion that there are many things in my life that actually need to be abandoned. There is not enough time left in my life to accomplish even a small fraction of the projects I have started and bogged down in over the years.

My sewing room is full of half-done garments; my spare bedroom bookshelf contains more books than I could read if I read from daylight til dark for the next ten years; three drawers of my desk overflow with partially written articles and even a novel or two; and there is a huge box in the family room filled with brochures from all the places I truly intended to visit. I even have an idle keyboard with half a dozen music books and a guitar tucked safely away in its case in hopes that, someday, I will find time to learn to play one or both of them. And that isn't counting the dreams I have of coming up with a way to make a fortune online, etc., etc.

I can't describe the stress all these unfinished projects have placed upon me. Every Monday, I make a new, "to do" list for the week and include at least one long term unfinished project, only to find on Friday, that another week has ended with most of my "to do" items still undone.

Sound familiar?

But tell me this. Is there any law, written or unwritten, that says we have to finish every project we ever start?

So, after spending some time this afternoon contemplating the meaning of "abandon" I have come to the conclusion that discarding most of the projects I described above would be a very liberating experience. I'm going to do it! I am going to commit abandonment......

Will I feel guilty? Probably--at least for a little while, but I suspect the guilt will pass. Anyone care to join me?