(This week's GBE challenge topic on another site is Illusion)
Is what we do here an illusion? We present ourselves in the GBE as great bloggers/writers. How much reality is there in that? We present ourselves as we see ourselves. Is that reality or our illusion? If you met me, would I really be the guy that is the family man you have met here? Or am I just here because I do not have positive relationship with my wife and children? Would you find me fun to be with, or a windbag full of himself that really cannot sustain a relationship with real people? Would you find my faith to be as tolerant and even handed as I have presented it here, or a narrow-minded Bible thumper that repulses you?
What about you, are you really who you present yourself to be here?
Interesting topic!
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What an interesting thread and comments...
is reality an illusion or illusion the reality? Is Huttriver the same or opposite of Peter the blogger from New Zealand? What an interesting question. Hutt is a damn site more relaxed than Peter.
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FF&F, I think it is very difficult to see ourselves as others
see us. Something that was a real revelation to me was when I recorded a message on our answering machine. Later, I called home to ask my husband something, and when my voice came online, I thought some southern person had erased my message and replaced it with one of her own. I drawled!
Imagine, a native Oregonian and I drawled.
I also tend to see myself as younger than am---until I look in a mirror, that is. I don't often tell people online my age for fear that they will decide what I have to say can't be all that important, coming from the mind of someone my age. It can work that way if you are younger or older than the average blogger. Lots of people automatically discount the words of people in either of those age ranges as not worth listening to. (Too bad. They might be missing out on something really good.)
The age illusion is one I had not thought of, Jeanne.
I definitely do not think of myself as old, though my boy stiffens up very quickly these days. But your point is a valid one, we want to be heard, so we position ourselves in the best place we THINK we can be heard.
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Over 50
and counting. I don't think myself old either. And how dare my husband think he is married to an old lady...
Not really. Just kidding...and we all know 50 is the top of the hill, not over it, right?
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Jellen, my dad says any fool knows it is easier
to go down hill than up!
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Well he is right!
And you can't be considered old since you have a living parent. So enjoy your childhood for a few more years.
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He is 81, and healthy, Jellen
and was 21 years and 2 days old when I was born.
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I tone it down
This is an interesting post. I am a pretty real person. I am who I am and that's pretty much it. As a blogger, I am more outspoken than I normally am in person mostly because in person, I am a listener more than a talker. Of course as a blogger.....I have to do the talking if I am going to post anything. As a blogger I am much more radical than I am in person, partially because I like to evoke a response which of course is the listener in me wanting to come out and hear what someone else has to say.
To some degree.....being radical also allows me to "vent" to the extreme. I think that helps my blood pressure althoug I am sure it has raised the blood pressure in others.
My writing style isn't sanitized. I don't "fix" anything because perfection isn't something I aspire to. I like some of the flaws in some people....it makes them seem more human to me....it is certainly something I can relate to.
I think you are who you say you are. Either you have fooled yourself into thinking you are the person who writes your blogs or you are that person. I don't believe you could have remained as consistent if you weren't.
I think, imaauthor, that I see myself as
I present myself online, but I am aware that not everyone I know sees me the same way I see myself.
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Good question...
But one with no set answer. We are who we are in person, but online, we have opportunity to edit our words before they are seen. And because our words are not heard, their tonal quality is not heard, nor is their intent sometimes.
So if you ask me if I'm the same as I show on screen, just look at my avatar. I view myself as a kitten, but in the mirror or to others, I might really be a raging lion. Or, I maybe view myself as a kitten, but might really want to have the strength of the lion I see in the mirror.
We are probably none of us the way we appear online. But last I saw your picture, FF&F, I could imagine you looking just like you did. I can imagine you living and walking out your faith, just like you do, because of the way you phrase your words, the way your serve others online through prayer corner and your comments.
Now that I haven't really answered your question, it's time to say, "see ya." Hmm...maybe that's a lot like me too.
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Very interesting answer, Jellen
much the same ideas as I had when I contemplated the topic.
See ya is a cute virtual departing thought!
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