When sometime we fail?

Failures are import part of our life. Every one faces them at some point in their life. We may face a failure due to n number of reason. Some times we are not prepared, some times what is expected from us is more than what we can deliver, some time luck fails us, sometimes our health betrays us or sometimes may be other reasons. There will be hardly any person in this world, who would like to fail? A fear of failure always remains with us and sometimes also leads to our failure. If, we rate between success and failure then the chances of failure are always more and with the passage of time world is becoming more failure driven. More and more things are becoming mere competitions and increasing chances of our failure. Today, even a five year old child is worried about failure. Today’s failures are taking the shape of more worst fears and there numbers are more as compared to fifty years back. When fifty years back a person fails five times, however, today we can expect a person to fail fifty times. So much of expectations and failures reduce our energy to face life and even may force some people to commit suicides. Today, we are living in a world which wants success but do not want to accept the other side of coin, which is a failure. One big problem with failure is that they affect the remaining life of person very hardly. Some people got drown in their failures and just waste their remaining life. Other major problem in failures is reaction of world. World may react sharply on you or may criticize you. There is no fun in giving them undue importance, only take if some learning is there. We should be ready to face our failures and learn from them to become a person, who is above success and failures. By persistent hard work, we can achieve anything, which may look impossible today.

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arvindkatoch1's picture

good comments

you both are true.

Elly's picture

That word "fail"

is so powerful and cruel. Isn't it true that people who never fail, have never tried anything? The best way to learn is to do something and learn whether it worked or not. If it worked claim success, if it didn't don't beat yourself up with the thought of failure,, it just didn't work. Try again. Encourage people who are beat up about a "failure" - encourage them to try again, do something different, test and measure. Some of our most successful people have tried and failed so many times, but never given up, kept going, until things changed for the better.

Lisa's picture

The old saying is true.

I can honestly say that as a business owner, I've learned more from my mistakes than I have my successes.

In fact, it was a failure that spurred me to take an action that then took my business to an entirely different level. (Don't worry. I won't bore you with the details.) Would I have made that particular decision had I not had a customer with enough courage to be honest with me? Maybe. But that criticism (and the action I took as a result) sped up the process considerably.