Wounded Heart?

Valentine's Day can be a wonderful day with all of the attention towards love, romance, relationships and candy. That is why people like to celebrate it. It is a great opportunity to express love to those special people in our lives.

However, if you have recently (or not so recently) suffered a damaged or terminated relationship, Valentine's Day can be a real bummer. Between your own memories and the 'couple's drama' all around you, it can be one miserable day.

What can you do if you are in that situation? You can sit at home remembering, wishing, crying and feeling angry or sorry for yourself. But that just brings more misery.


Someone suggeted you do the following: Make plans to join a couple of friends for an evening at the sports bar. The theory is that little romance will be found amongst the game, beer and chicken wings. Relax and have a good time. This way you are not defeated - you come out ahead and will feel good about that.

Does that help? I don't know. Have courage and try it!

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This is my first valentine's

This is my first valentine's day as a married woman. And this is my first valentines that I can say that I am really with someone special. All Valentine's Days before this were all bad memories. My hubby gave me a bouquet of flowers... you know the usual but I love it just the same. Nothing was so extra-ordinary too... he slept early because he was so tired from working all day (he is a carpenter) outside at sub-zero climate. I can't complain because I know he took extra effort to buy the flower for me and I appreciate it. What is important is that... I am not a wounded heart anymore.